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Navigating Personal Borrowing: Balancing Finances and Relationships

Written by: David (he/him)

3 min read | Published: May 28, 2024

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In our interconnected lives, borrowing money from friends and family has become a common practice. Whether it's for unexpected expenses, personal projects, or managing debts, many of us turn to our loved ones for financial support. However, this seemingly straightforward process can have added complexities and implications that could impact relationships. In a survey done by Lending Tree, 53% of Americans have borrowed or loans money from someone they know, but a shocking finding from that same survey found that 31% of Americans would prefer going into debt over asking a friend or family member for money. Let's explore the world of personal borrowing, its effects on personal connections, and the benefits that can come from borrowing from someone you know, to hopefully break the stigma attached that 31% of Americans feel.

Risks of Personal Borrowing

Borrowing from friends or family carries risks beyond financial implications. First, there's typically a lack of formal documentation, which can lead to misunderstandings. Without clear terms, both parties may have different expectations regarding repayment, interest, or deadlines. This ambiguity can strain relationships, especially when the borrowed amount is significant. Additionally, there can be an emotional toll. Borrowing from loved ones can create feelings of guilt, obligation, or resentment. It's crucial to navigate these emotions carefully to avoid damaging relationships.

Considerations for Borrowers

Before seeking financial help from friends or family, consider these factors:

Benefits of Personal Borrowing

Despite the risks, personal borrowing can have advantages:

Offers Emotional Support

Borrowing from loved ones often comes with emotional support. They understand your struggles and can offer encouragement during challenging times. If someone in your life is unable to lend to you, they may be able to offer emotional support and suggest other means of getting the resources you need to succeed instead. If you feel stressed or feel like your emotions are heightened, try to take a moment to calm yourself down before beginning a conversation where you are asking for money. Maintaining a level emotional state and a clear head during what can be a difficult situation will help you avoid making the moment more stressful for yourself and those around you.

In the intricate dance of personal borrowing, trust and communication take center stage. If you're seeking financial assistance from a friend or family member, remember to consider the impact on your relationships, communicate openly, and appreciate the bonds that make personal borrowing a unique and meaningful experience. Always balance the risks and benefits to avoid unnecessary strain on your relationships.

Sources:

https://pocketsense.com/advantages-disadvantages-borrowing-money-family-7750735.html

https://newsroom.zirtue.com/post/mixing-money-and-loved-ones-casual-vs-organized-approach

https://www.lendingtree.com/personal/lending-between-friends-and-family-survey/

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